posted October 09, 2008 11:48 AM         

But PA, you know Guinevere didn`t love Arthur, don`t you? lol

No seriously.
Seems pretty good. What are you hiding from me?

However my Draco with Orlando:

my DR Sun opposes his Pluto
my DR Venus conjuncts his Chiron and SN
my DR Chiron conjuncts his Venus (a dw!)
my DR Venus opposes his Isolde and Moon
my DR MC conjunctgs his Sun
my DR Lancelot conjuncts his Venus
my DR TRistan and Guinevere conjunct his SN and opposing his Isolde and Moon: sure I have all the sad Tristan-Isolde connections
my DR Isolde oposing his Sun

His DR ASC conjunct my Eros, Vertex, Destinn and DR IC
his DR ARthur conjunct my Venus and Tristan
his DR Psyche conjunct my Moon
his DR Pluto conjunct my jUno almost exaclty
his DR Isolde and MOon conjunct my IC and Isolde
his DR ERos conjunct my Chiron and widely my Venus
his DR Destinn conjunct my DSC
his DR Mars and Mercury conjunct my SN and DC and oppoing my Neptune and Morgan
his Dr Sun opposing my Sun and Merlin
his DR Lancelot conjunct my Saturn and widely opposing my Guinevere
his DR Chiron conjunct my DSC

posted October 09, 2008 11:51 AM         

Okay, bragger! God, let me have someone.

posted October 09, 2008 12:01 PM         

And Orlando, well, he is not my soulmate, or otherwise I would have gone to London and seen him last year, wouldn`t I?
ACtually I was on my way, sitting in the train to London, I was listening to Andy`s voice singing a certain song, then suddenly the train stopped for 1,5 hours. AFter that I had missed the other train, but the people on the station were nice and wanted to make everything possible so I get there. But then I stood in front of the other train and couldn`t get into it. I felt like I would be DYING if I did. That it was so horribly wrong. The most surreal day ever.

posted October 09, 2008 12:07 PM         

I pretty much agree with it. The most significant relationships in my life outside of my birth family have shown up strong configuations ~ Kite, Mystic Rectangle, Grand Cross, Grand Trine, Grand Square. As well as my best bud, my kids are inclined in that mix, their father, you may have seen, is the Grand Cross provider. All of them include Trines between either Sun/Mercury and Mercury/Mercury. Weird.

Most charts I run up for amusement are of people I don't know, or maybe neighbours and casual friends. There may be some strong aspects, but quite often there isn't anything exact by degree, and sometimes, like the chart with young Hayden, it just looks straight off like the chart of two people who would pass each other by on the street without much notice. Which, if he wasn't in Star Wars, would probably be what I would do.

This ties in with the reality of life, in which relationships are like a pyramid. Most people you pass by noticing barely. Then a couple of steps up you might nod and say hello to a few. The pyramid is getting narrower. Climbing futher up the narrow part of the pyramid you talk a little bit more, maybe you go for a cup of tea in a cafe. Higher up you are in their house. Then you're good friends. Higher and narrower, there's less space, and less people you are really close to, you really connect to. It's very near the top of the pyramid where you find the people you could imagine living with for decades. It's unlikely to be many. The single stone on the top is there and not lining round the bottom in scores. It's a rare beast and if you get to it, you know there is no place left to go higher.

O.K, you can walk inside pyramids but why complicate things, it smells of p!ss and there will be someone with ratty hair pretending to meditate, anyway.

posted October 09, 2008 12:12 PM         

you are hilarious

But I like the picture of the pyramid, and yes I think strong relationships will have narrow orbs, strong aspects between major planets and above all strong configurations.

posted October 09, 2008 12:14 PM         

That was beautiful.

Is this the information you seek:

quote:

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It is desirable to have:

At least one combination in the Strongest Compatibility (weight 4) category
At least 4 or 5 in the Very Strong Compatibility (weight 3) category
Zero or at most 1 in the Red Alert (weight -4) category
At most 3 in the weight -3 category
At least 3 but no more than 7 in the weight -2 category [Note that it IS desirable to have some challenging aspects in a relationship.

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If so - this is the link:
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry.html

posted October 09, 2008 12:31 PM         

quote:

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would you include a synastric stellium in the strong configurations

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It's just my experience DD, I'm not saying it's the way it should be, but here's me and my dad:

Am I a bit of a daddy's girl, oh no, not at all.

BTW I don't think your oneness description can really be bettered, it's near impossible to put some things into words, I think that was what Wittgenstein meant with

quote:

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What we cannot speak about we must pass over in silence

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But though I studied that book at college I never really had a clue what he was on about. I also did a course on Kant. It went right over my head.

posted October 09, 2008 12:31 PM         

Seriously, there are not so many actors who manage that project-themselves-into-my-mind-thing.
RDJ does that, Jude, Paul at times and for some reason Brad Pitt. NOt sure about the reason for that though. lol

And Stuart`s voice. Not his look, just his voice. that is strange, too. OH and Orlando`s voice, too.

posted October 09, 2008 12:35 PM         

DD

I understand about the RDJ thing. I heard somewhere that if you play him backwards he says Satanic subliminal messages. No, really!