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posted September 28, 2008 08:30 AM            

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CC

I really respect your openness about this. Many others would have kept silent. By doing this you could be preventing similar experiences for others or even set off alarm bells for them if they are living it right now.

When you find the balance of your self-worth and you truly value yourself you will no longer attract these experiences because you will be coming from a different place within yourself. Learn from this but move forward. You deserve genuine love and good things and when you come to that place inside yourself you will draw it to you just through who you are. But while you feel and act and think and believe unworthy you will live that. Sending you lots of love. Just know that you are worthy and loved.

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posted September 28, 2008 09:16 AM            

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CC, I am so sorry this has happened to you. I can only imagine what it feels like. Ask for strength from God and support from your family. And find inspiration from your children. They need you to be strong! You CAN get through this. Also the fact that he says he is going to commit suicide is a CLASSIC case of manipulation. Just tell him to go ahead, because that will nip the manipulation in the bud. He is just trying to buy time, because he knows he is going to jail. It sounds like he formed a bond with you to make you believe in him even more, and to confuse you. He is a criminal and a great actor. Dont be blinded. Stay away from him hes poison. Sending love and prayers

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posted September 28, 2008 02:40 PM              

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Thanks for all of the support guys...

And I mean it when I say this..
I probably would have continued contacting him if I didn't have your loving advice to read. It really has touched my heart to read your posts.
So I won't contact him or respond to him anymore.
I will go in on Monday and do my report for the FBI and see what turns up.

I'll post again here if anything with that turns up.

THANK YOU!!

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Make new friends
But keep the old
One is silver
and the other's gold

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posted September 28, 2008 04:20 PM              

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My hear is still broken for you CC. If you want to chat about anything, I am here. You know where to find me, on Yahoo Messenger

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posted September 30, 2008 03:57 PM              

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CC - I am horrified at your experience. My heart goes out to you. The pictures looked so happy. I hope somehow you can recoup your losses, But I mostly hope that your heart will heal and the next man you love will be more than trustworthy. I am truly sorry you went through this. I wish for you a brighter tomorrow and please remember someday this will all be a bad memory, I know it doesn't help much now, but it is true. Sending love, Sunshine

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