posted October 22, 2008 06:01 AM         

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I like to think I ooze sex appeal from every pore, but that would be the self-delusion.

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I'm somewhat disillusioned by this remark. I honestly thought that you were sex on legs. That kills my self-delusions that I can read people really really well. Damn!

Sibling love huh? Well, just be grateful, I say. Take it whichever way you can.

And you think people hate you? Hahahahahahahahahahaha.

I can't imagine anything @rseholish about you. You seem very genuine and authentic to yourself to me. When I picture you I think of someone really elegant, actually. You have that class that comes from integrity.

posted October 22, 2008 06:17 AM         

Sex on legs ~ that's pretty subjective, isn't it?

And you know, what could be more @rseholish than saying: yeah, men love me, I'm all that. Though people do

I've never had any problems getting male attention, put it like that, and believe me I'm no beauty. If I had a scanner I'd put up a picture.

I'm 37, PeaceAngel, and I've had 2 kids. Skipping around like I'm a little fox is going to look undignified. Not that I ever conducted myself that way anyway. You know what I'm saying there, we are of the same mind on this, I do believe.

posted October 22, 2008 06:39 AM         

Just thinking aloud here...

Women seem to get upset with the realisation that age makes them less and less sexually attractive to men. It doesn't bother me that much. When young I used to get annoyed when I thought a man was listening to my opinion and really he was just trying to get into my drawers. That is SO annoying. It happens less with age, so that is a good side of it.

That keeps Mars in 3rd in Aqua happy.

Until I work out they are neither listening nor interested in getting me into bed.

posted October 22, 2008 06:39 AM         

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Sex on legs ~ that's pretty subjective, isn't it?

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Well, there's only one direction it's gonna be in so it kinda has to be subjective, if you know what I mean? Would you prefer "a brain with some extra leg room"?

posted October 22, 2008 06:43 AM         

You have a beautiful relationship. You understand and respect each other

You see eye to eye and understand each other clearly. You may say the same thing at the same time---and probably love to talk with each other

You truly love each other---and love the happiness you feel when you are together. You bring out the best in each other and see the other as beautiful. Your love is reflected in the other's eyes, so you see yourself as loved, and love the feeling of being loved

You have a beautiful friendship. You like each other and love being together.

You respect, yet resist, each other's authority out of a fear of being restricted by it. You can each build a wall around yourselves that keeps the other out.
(Personally I think the orb for this might be too wide: it`s almost 10°)

You can be in tune psychically

There is a strong power play between the two of you. You each want to be in control and are threatened by the fear of losing the game, for it is an all-or-nothing, winner-take-all game.

You communicate well, both verbally and non-verbally, because you understand each other and hear what is NOT being said as well as what is.

You love each other and want to be together

Your relationship is unique and exciting. You are psychically in tune with each other

You think alike and see things the same way, therefore you understand one another. You can even say the same thing at the same time.

Your beliefs and concepts are different, so while you trigger one another's ideas, you don't understand each other.

Your conversations are stimulating and fun. You trigger each other's sense of humor and innovative ideas. You are mentally and psychically in tune

You are passionate about one another, sexually attracted to each other and excited when you are together. You can be competitive with each other and therefore, feel both love and hate for one another, depending on the situation
(You are passionate about one another, sexually attracted to each other and excited when you are together. You can be competitive with each other and therefore, feel both love and hate for one another, depending on the situation (Venus conjunct Mars, but orb is almost 8°)

You share a spiritual love for one another, adore one another and feel the other is too good to be true. You feel blessed to have found each other. When you are together you are in love with love and do not see the other clearly. This can lead to self-deception---or can manifest as unconditional love, in which you willingly sacrifice for one another

You share a deep bond of love and are magnetically drawn together

he sexual energies between you are powerful. You are each jealous and possessive when you feel you are not in control---and you will manipulate in order to be in control. There is an all-of-nothing tone to the relationship.

posted October 22, 2008 06:44 AM         

I meant ... no-one is going to be attractive to everyone.

Brad Pitt is held up as an example of male beauty in common parlance. He leaves me cold. There's a million examples.

How can astrology show someone is all that? I mean, it could be the chart of someone in a retirement home. Though, I take it back, maybe they get all the geriatrics in there buzzing.

posted October 22, 2008 06:47 AM         

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Until I work out they are neither listening or interested in getting me into bed.

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Yeah, that is a crushing blow.

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Women seem to get upset with the realisation that age makes them less and less sexually attractive to men. It doesn't bother me that much. When young I used to get annoyed when I thought a man was listening to my opinion and really he was just trying to get into my drawers.

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I'm not so much concerned that I'm less obviously sexy to men - on appearance. But I would hope that some wit and intelligence shines. I think as men get older too - some of them - change their values and what they find attractive in women. There's this thing that the really really good looking birds are so self-conscious in bed (always worrying about how they look) that doesn't let them loose and enjoy themselves which is unappealling in that situation. I know that a really good dirty joke will carry me further than showing my **** . And back then I could attract them but not the ones I really wanted. Age makes you more relaxed in your skin. Only, to a point, because you have to be - kinf of forces you. And that's a good thing because it lets you settle into who you are. I own every line, every scar. Because I know where it's come from and how that has brought me to where I am - which inside myself is okay. There's always room for improvement. But I think I'm far more attractive now at 38 with extra weight and lines than I was 20 years ago with the aide of youth. I wasn't comfortable in myself.

posted October 22, 2008 06:50 AM         

Your feelings for each other are strong and you express them clearly and directly.

You present the opposite side of the coin to each other--when one is up and the other is down, you are either balanced or at odds with one another.

You are torn between doing what you WANT to do and what you feel you SHOULD do.

You trigger one another's fear. This holds you back.

You are psychically in tune

You empower Jude to express him/herself and be creative

Jude empowers you to express yourself and be creative

Jude may become tenacious of you and regard you as one of his/her possessions.
(He wouldn`t DARE!!!)

Jude triggers your emotional need to be on top and be a leader. Yet Jude can be the leader when the two of you get together

Jude feels beautiful and loved when he/she is with you. Because he/she loves the way he/she feels about him/herself when you are together, Jude loves you.

You feel beautiful and loved when you are with Jude. Because you love the way you feel about yourself when you are together, you love Jude.

You trigger a strong desire for solitude within Jude. There is a private element to this relationship. Jude can be angry at you and not be aware of it.

Jude triggers a strong desire for solitude within you. There is a private element to this relationship. You can be angry at Jude and not be aware of it.

You trigger a fear of the unknown within Jude which can make it difficult to get to the cause of things

Jude triggers your feelings of responsibility to have a partner or mate---and your fear of being restricted by the relationship

Jude either feels inspired or spacey and confused when he/she is with you

You feel either inspired or spacey and confused when you are with Jude

You can bring about a total change in the way the world sees him/her.

You can bring about a total change in the way the world sees you.

posted October 22, 2008 06:51 AM         

I love that about your grandpa - 80 and still pulling the chicks. How you have to love that. I bet he was really charming and had that really funny/naughty thing about him.

It's not about age. And I think that's where people miss the point. Attractiveness has nothing to do with age. Zero. I was watching the beginning of NCIS the other night - just walking over to turn the tv off and I got sucked into the show for a minute - and I tend to think out loud and said, basically to myself, that I just love Gibbs. My 8yo son was behind me and quipped "but he's old". Yeah, whatever! I don't care - he's better now than he was 20 years ago - even more.

posted October 22, 2008 06:53 AM         

I don't care, really.

I got a few rude comments about my weight when I was younger, the Keira end.

I can't really explain it. If someone wanted to upset me they would really be wasting their time by calling me ugly, or skinny b!tch. Which they probably did at school, it would be a bit ridiculous now as I have a pot-belly (hidden under lyrcra).

posted October 22, 2008 06:56 AM         

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Maybe I just need to sacrifice my principles and buy a pair of purple fishnets and a matching leotard.

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Ah, we already have one of those. Courtney Love. See - even Madonna tries to emulate someone! She's not the cutting edge, et al.

posted October 22, 2008 06:56 AM         

'well, yeah, I have Venus rising and everyone says I am really beautiful, no really stunning. All the girls I know hate me because their boyfriends want me.'

posted October 22, 2008 07:09 AM         

Venus is in Aries in 1st.

posted October 22, 2008 07:11 AM         

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Just being mischevious... I wonder what an "are you all that?" thread would yield on the astro forum? I bet you would get a few people piping up. Some of the archives are hilarious...

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posted October 22, 2008 07:11 AM         

I think the more honest reason would be that I kinda intimidate them. Not because I am so forceful or strong, but I can get VERY defensive, when I feel someone is getting too close. And too close can be something like asking me for the way at times.
It really reduces the chances of getting to know someone. lol

posted October 22, 2008 07:15 AM         

Let me have a go.

"Men think I'm beautiful because I have Venus in the first house. All girls hate me and are jealous, because, like, yeah, you know, they think I'm trying to pick up their boyfriends, because, well, yeah, I am, but they're not as good as me. I mean, you know, like, I'm hot!"

posted October 22, 2008 07:22 AM         

Attractiveness has NOTHING to do with weight or looks. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say. But it's true. Otherwise we would all desire one type of person and the rest of us would be terribly lonely.

posted October 22, 2008 07:25 AM         

That's what I meant by subjective ~ I can't see how somone is more attractive to everyone than someone else. It's not going to apply to all cases. It just won't.

posted October 22, 2008 07:26 AM         

btw - the threads that amuse me the most are the ones where they haven't been on a first date yet and they're posting already asking if they're soulmates? The poor guy is thinking dinner and a movie - and she's thinking wedding dress and eternity. No wonder they're asking the same question about someone else next week. Poor guy. As I've said before, those who are looking for a soulmate so hard miss a perfectly wonderful opportunity at love and a beautiful Earth mate. Nothing wrong with that.

posted October 22, 2008 07:32 AM         

True. We have to like different things in different people. How many times have I said that I really don't like a guy who is too built. I mean there's a complaint - he's too musucular, damn! But I just don't find it attractive - at all.

posted October 22, 2008 07:46 AM         

I have Venus in Taurus, and this is quite like me ~ O.K being too lazy to wash is a switch-off. But I'm just not uptight about bodily things. I'm fine to mop up fluids if people are ill. Model-good looks are not obligatory.

posted October 22, 2008 07:46 AM         

Interesting report with Jude. I didn't mind this report. Had some good stuff in it. Like the astrological interpretations more than the synastry with RDJ.

I also did one with Colin. Some of the results:

You see each other as loving and beautiful.

You inspire each other to be your highest and best.

You have a spiritual bond with each other.

You bring out one another's uniqueness, inventiveness and individuality.

Your emotional and psychic attunement is powerful.

You are spiritually in tune and inspire each other without saying a word. You bring out the other's most beautiful thoughts and ideas.

You see each other as special---as your dream come true.

Your feelings for each other are deep and intense, and the underlying sexual energies are powerful.

Colin Farrell inspires you to have faith and serve God, and may open you to a more spiritual or mystical philosophy of life.

- Umm yeah! Spiritual service through Colin Farrell. Have to love that! As Bono says, "Take me to that other place". No objections or resistence here. I'm all for spiritual service.