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meta_4
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posted October 27, 2008 07:58 PM
 
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I think maybe BM has a girl crush on me
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Yeah, we all do. ***fall of chair laughing*** Oh, sorry, it's true. ***fingers crossed*** I mean it. ***nose growing longer and longer*** Oh, fine then! I give up. ***slams door***
... SECURITY!!!!! Security, please escort Miss PA to the nearest garbage dump where she belongs. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
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posted October 27, 2008 08:01 PM
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Also we dedicate many hours into associating ourselves with this person and we then start "developing" a relationship in our head.
Brilliant obervation. I was thinking this over the last couple of days. What has started as general banter has emerged into researching past life histories, etc. We're feeding each others' fantasy addiction. It's only serious if it gets in the way of your day-to-day life. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:03 PM
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It's only serious if it gets in the way of your day-to-day life.
Which it did there for a while, or at least something to turn to when things got tough there. I just don't think it's a good thing for me personally to indulge in. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
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posted October 27, 2008 08:03 PM
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Security, please escort Miss PA to the nearest garbage dump where she belongs.
***door opens - PA thrown to the ground, hears footsteps, looks up*** "Sean, hi! I was wondering where you went to". ***somewhere at the back of some stupidly named pub sounds of pleasure and pleasuring are overheard*** Sorry bm  I couldn't resist. IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 27, 2008 08:04 PM
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It's the fact that they can do stuff that we still aren't allowed to do or can't do that makes them hot, like move furniture or something.
Are you kidding me? I asked my husband to put up a picture for me, he said: are you manually incapable? So I did it myself. He's right, you don't need a knob to be able to bang a nail with a hammer. Heavy furniture? Get more women to carry it and distribute the weight properly. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:05 PM
But having said that, who doesn't? Eg isn't all of pop stardom and other forms of entertainment living out infantile fantasies? Take celebrity crush - forms a band to get chicks and adored. Has an Aston Martin to emulate Bond. Writes theme song for Bond, dates Bond girl. Tries to get another girlfriend into Bond film. Wears Fedoras. What I'm saying is everyone does it. We love it of course because it's so ridiculous and we want to be part of that fantasy ourselves. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
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posted October 27, 2008 08:05 PM
for bmHe's all yours. I have no interest - I swear.  ***fingers crossed behind back*** IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4368
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posted October 27, 2008 08:07 PM
Meta, I believe you on the non-flexibility. But the Kite is a great configuration to have, but you have to use it. The focus is on the Opposition. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:07 PM
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Are you kidding me?I asked my husband to put up a picture for me, he said: are you manually incapable?
OK, that was an extreme "sexist" case I put up. Men however are physically stronger than women, I've seen it with my own eyes and I'm sure you have too  IP: Logged |
meta_4
Knowflake Posts: 1851
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posted October 27, 2008 08:08 PM
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Brilliant obervation. I was thinking this over the last couple of days. What has started as general banter has emerged into researching past life histories, etc.We're feeding each others' fantasy addiction. It's only serious if it gets in the way of your day-to-day life.
I think we're simply looking for logical explanations as to why we are "connected" to these men. Through astrology and past lives we are trying to reason. That way, it makes it seem like we're not just irrationally obsessed. That way, there is, indeed, a method to the madness. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 5535
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Registered: May 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 08:08 PM
We all need to step away from the computer. We're all here - in 4 different time zones and it was only a few hours ago that we were here.***starting to cradle into the foetal position*** IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:10 PM
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I think we're simply looking for logical explanations as to why we are "connected" to these men. Through astrology and past lives we are trying to reason. That way, it makes it seem like we're not just irrationally obsessed. That way, there is, indeed, a method to the madness.
Spot on. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 5535
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posted October 27, 2008 08:10 PM
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That way, it makes it seem like we're not just irrationally obsessed. That way, there is, indeed, a method to the madness.
Well, yes, there is truth here. However, it's a fine line between fantasy and reality. Personally I'd like my fantasies to be my reality. But then, I probably speak for the masses there. Sorry, I have to - Colin's in the bath and he's calling me. Ah, I love my real life. Or is it my fantasy life. Ummm, ummmm.................
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:11 PM
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Well, yes, there is truth here. However, it's a fine line between fantasy and reality. Personally I'd like my fantasies to be my reality. But then, I probably speak for the masses there
Yes because well certainly my reality is BORING. BM mentioned that earlier on. However, I'm sure the reality of being a celebrity is BORING too, I'm sure they get to do some exciting things but I don't think it's all roses for them as well. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4368
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 27, 2008 08:13 PM
Not being a plumber, electrician or mechanic I've got to get someone to do those things for me, but I don't need a sweaty snorer to help me move the bookshelves, you know what I'm saying. But don't dream this means I'm about to switch to the girl's team, Meta.  IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:15 PM
Even drug taking is an illusion and fantasy. Maintaining that high after a concert or public area in front of thousands of screaming people all wanting you. Must be hard to come down. IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 27, 2008 08:17 PM
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We all need to step away from the computer.
Why? I'll only go and watch some cr@p telly. If we lived in the same town we would be drinking wine and talking about how the postman has a nicer arse than the butcher. That not being possible, this is an amusing alternative. I don't really believe in past lives or karma. I don't eat meat either, but the butcher in our town is quite fit, I noticed when I went to buy a bottle of milk from his shop. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 5535
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 08:19 PM
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Even drug taking is an illusion and fantasy. Maintaining that high after a concert or public area in front of thousands of screaming people all wanting you. Must be hard to come down.
It's trying to replicate the rush of the first time. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:20 PM
Anyway, it's better to go on here and act it out than in reality and end up in all sorts of trouble. I can't remember who said it, someone like Clarke Gable, love is the only real adventure in life. IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted October 27, 2008 08:21 PM
Maybe i'm speaking for myself here, but i don't fantacize about Ralph. I don't daydream about what a life together with him would be like. I don't have another reality going on in my brain. I look at him as someone who represents what i am looking for in a "soulmate". I am looking at the qualities that he possesses and i am seeing 1) idealistic traits for a lover 2) qualities that mirror my own self. There is a difference between believing you are with someone you are not and feeling connected to someone. Are Ralph and i going to get together? No. We're not. And though that may sting, and it may seem irrational for it to sting since i've never met the man, i cannot live my life for someone i do not know. THAT would be irrational. And when it all comes down to it, it's not about HIM. It's about ME. It's about YOU. It's about how these men, or what these men stand for, affect us. How they hurt us or help us. So are we feeding an addiction? No. I don't think so. We're learning about ourselves through them. We're learning what we want from a partner, what we want from love, life, friendship. And we're also learning along the way how we would affect one another. Some of these people that are touching us NOW have, in fact, touched us in the past. That's not impractical, it's not make believe, it's reality. But when you stop thinking of it as "Yes, we were lovers before. Yes, we were friends before." and start thinking of it as "Yes, we are lovers now. Yes, we are friends now." then you have a problem. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 5535
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 08:21 PM
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Why? I'll only go and watch some cr@p telly. If we lived in the same town we would be drinking wine and talking about how the postman has a nicer arse than the butcher. That not being possible, this is an amusing alternative.
Yeah, you know what? You're absolutely ****ing right!
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:22 PM
I'm sorry if I come across as morose, just contemplating, rationalising as usual. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4368
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 27, 2008 08:23 PM
Yeah, so feast your eyes on this. In a past life he shinned up triple ladders and cleaned out the guttering of my house.  [URL=http://g.imageshack.us/thpix.php ]  [/URL] His sword was too big for the other host site IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 5535
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 08:24 PM
I'm going to have to buy a laptop so I can communicate with you while I'm at school during the day next year. I swear you guys keep me sane.I say school because I don't want to use the term college because it's a technical college - TAFE for 23 as she'll know - saying college makes it sound grander than it is. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4096
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
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posted October 27, 2008 08:25 PM
I never dream about being him because I know that's not possible for a myriad of reasons, the only fantasy I have of him is to catch his eye and notice me for that one split-second. That's doable, I seek recognition. Maybe I'm nuts, what do you think" IP: Logged |
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