posted November 05, 2008 08:37 PM            

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ps - foreplay is over-rated. Actually - words are foreplay. Mercury & Venus in Aries in 1st. Verbal sparring = foreplay. Not character assassination. But just a good verbal jousting match - wit and banter. Ah, love that. The best. But not straight out dirty talk - has to be clever - witty.

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Apparently you haven't had a chance to be with a Libra Lol! Mark my words, Libra guys know just how to explore a woman's body in and out (*looks all smug.*) Lol! Well, actually those who might have a bit too much air in their charts unfortunately might not be able to deliver on the "Coup de Grace" so to speak and that might turn a lot of women off.

posted November 05, 2008 08:42 PM            

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Anticipation is about 90% of it I think. Becaue you're head is 100 steps ahead of you. That's vital. Can't make the headspace too good though because you want the actual thing to live up to it. Venus in Aries - I'm quick onto the anticipation. But then Mars in Taurus has stamina.

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And that is why chemistry is important. Most guys would tell you that sex itself is enough for them. If that were true, then they wouldn't be sitting at home staring at Angelina Jolies, or Heidi Klums of the world Lol! (To tell you the truth, a Supermodel's looks aren't the reason why most guys are attracted to them ; Its actually the confidence and allure they present in their untight personality Lol!)

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Enjoying our family friend chat, btw!

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posted November 05, 2008 08:45 PM            

I was just in a car accident.

And for the past three months, life has gotten progressively worse:

I'm directing my first play, which opens next week.
I drive 3 hours to get there, and 3 hours back to college.
I've spent $1,500 on this play.
I'm broke.
My car inspection is FRIDAY.
My college account has been frozen because of some misunderstanding between the Stafford Loan people.
I need to register for next semester's classes, but can't until i get another loan.
I see my "Determing Mutual Feelings" man every weekend.
I'm infatuated with my f*cking poetry professor.
I've lost 20 lbs in less than 3 months (mostly of muscle, i used to bike everyday for 2 hours!)
I can't sleep.
I'm not hungry.
I don't like being with people anymore.
I'm exhausted ALL THE TIME.

posted November 05, 2008 08:48 PM            

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And that is why chemistry is important. Most guys would tell you that sex itself is enough for them. If that were true, then they wouldn't be sitting at home staring at Angelina Jolies, or Heidi Klums of the world Lol! (To tell you the truth, a Supermodel's looks aren't the reason why most guys are attracted to them ; Its actually the confidence and allure they present in their untight personality Lol!)

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See, now that's really interesting. Because I wonder how different that is to a woman. I can only speak for myself, but I know I look at pics of celebrities to gain insight into them - who they are in their heart & soul. Every now and then I see a picture and I think whoa - I wonder what it feels to have that person standing next to me or against me or on me, skin on my skin, how do they kiss, etc. I must admit, there is only one celeb I that makes me think that. The rest is about them - who they are.

I can see that confidence is really important to a man. Too much though might put them off too. They'd be too scared to approach her maybe. I don't like over-confidence in a man - too cocky. Arrogant. Secure in who he is is one thing - but arrogance is something else entirely. I'm not the prettiest girl - for sure - but I can attract male attention easily. Wit accounts for most of it. But a smile. I always smiling and people like other people who smile.

I've been in a room with stunners and come out with drinks and phone numbers - all because - as they have told me - I'm the only girl in the room smiling. I think that's nice. People are drawn to happy people. Makes them feel good.

posted November 05, 2008 08:49 PM            

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There once was a guy named Rafe
who had a really terrible chafe
he developed a lisp quite late (lathe)
but was seeking a soul mate (mathe)
by the time he was done
she hadn't begun
and that is the story of Rafe.

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Chafe? Chafe? Chafe?

Rafe with Chafe? I prefer Cafe:

There once was guy named Rafe,
Who wanted to dine at a buffet,
But the hunger set in,
After a mile-high gin,
And he dined in an avion toilé

posted November 05, 2008 08:49 PM            

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I was just in a car accident.

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First thing. Are you okay?

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I'm fine. Just... well, not in a very good mood. I feel like my head, my heart, my body weighs a thousand pounds and at any given moment i'm going to fizzle into nothing.

posted November 05, 2008 08:57 PM            

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You're still in shock. That heavy feeling is a whole combination of things. The shock. Your disillusionment in it happening - to you. Wondering why you're deserving all this stuff right now. And not seeing how to get out of it. Go and have a shower and come back. It will clear you. Oh, and have a big cry in there too.

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posted November 05, 2008 08:58 PM            

My condolences for the car... And the fact that your insurance company will find this a fitting excuse to jack up your premium... Grrr... Leeches! And no you aren't being a killjoy. I think I would be counting my blessings too after such a near fatal incident.

PA:

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I can see that confidence is really important to a man. Too much though might put them off too. They'd be too scared to approach her maybe. I don't like over-confidence in a man - too cocky. Arrogant. Secure in who he is is one thing - but arrogance is something else entirely. I'm not the prettiest girl - for sure - but I can attract male attention easily. Wit accounts for most of it. But a smile. I always smiling and people like other people who smile

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Confidence is definately important for both sexes IMO. There are certina things that one can't really distiguish between the sexes and are mutually appealing for both guys and girls.

posted November 05, 2008 08:59 PM            

Just popping by and diverting to G-rated matters.

Meta - please check to see if there is a (hard) aspect between either t-Mars/t-Ura and n-Mars/n-Ura. Often a square between Mars and Ura can cause accidents. When I had a DW, I stabbed myself accidentally in the finger...

Take care and rest.

Be back later, or try to.

posted November 05, 2008 08:59 PM            

Life's throwing it at you at the moment, to see how much you can take.

So how much can you take? How much do you want to take?

What do you want from Life? What have you asked the Universe for lately?

It's there to give us whatever we desire. Damn it, because if we ask too many questions it's like we're shooting off a round of bullets, then too much comes at us.

I think maybe you have been asking to fill your soul as you seem to be a full-on person with a load of energy. You're studying, directing, spending, losing weight due to a physical routine change, your heart is being tested with your poetry professor. There's a lot happening for you!!!!

posted November 05, 2008 09:07 PM            

Jesus! One thing at a time.

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I'm directing my first play, which opens next week.
I drive 3 hours to get there, and 3 hours back to college.
I've spent $1,500 on this play.
I'm broke.

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It's a learning experience. Take it for what it is. Money is something the revolves. More always comes to you. Never as much as you would like - I'm familiar. But there's more somewhere. You just have to have the clarity to rearrange it so you can meet your needs.

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My car inspection is FRIDAY.

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Well, looks like they'll be taking a closer look at it now. Just relax. What's done is done. Nothing you can do to change it.

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My college account has been frozen because of some misunderstanding between the Stafford Loan people.

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Take care of this one NOW. Tomorrow. In this list of things to do - make this one priority. Ask the Universe to help you before you go in there - ask for the perfect person to help you.

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I need to register for next semester's classes, but can't until i get another loan.

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Go and see someone to get some help. There's people around who can help you. Never have to go it alone. It removes most of the burden knowing you're not alone.

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I see my "Determing Mutual Feelings" man every weekend.

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We'll come back to this one. I need to ask you. Are you involved? Otherwise, why would you be seeing him.

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I'm infatuated with my f*cking poetry professor.

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It's a passing crush. Nothing more. It's just that your feelings inside yourself are so intense, and you desire love so much, that you are making it more than it is. It's a crush - that's all - and one that will pass - they always do.

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I've lost 20 lbs in less than 3 months (mostly of muscle, i used to bike everyday for 2 hours!)
I can't sleep.
I'm not hungry.

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Unhappiness does that to a person.

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I don't like being with people anymore.

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You're highly confused. And feel like you have nothing to offer them. Besides, you're so exhausted that they're a drain to you right now as well. And the thing is - that when you put so much energy into who you are and how you're seen - you're going to exhaust yourself. Now, this is where you start learning to do things for yourself. And that's the good part. Take away the need to be who you think others want you to be or making things the way you want them to see you - and it frees you - you have the freedom to just stand there in your own truth and be who you are. Let it all go.

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I'm exhausted ALL THE TIME.

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posted November 05, 2008 09:10 PM            

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Oh a smile is definately a sign of inner confidence and I have no doubt you have the attention of most guys in the room

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Great. Now if someone could just put me in the same room as this guy. Oh my!

posted November 05, 2008 09:13 PM            

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Now back to the piercings (us Mars in Gemini don't need that ;P) but yeah she's way hotter than me

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LOL - Mars in Gemini not needing that :laughing. Good for you, sister! Lord almight - it's getting hot in here.

Honey, she's hotter than most of us.

posted November 05, 2008 09:15 PM            

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What the heck is that nicotine addicted guy injecting into his arm?????

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Wouldn't be a nicotine patch, by any chance?