posted December 25, 2008 07:07 PM         

Anyway, I'd never pick on Rafe - I've got a soft spot for him (in my heart, PA!!!!!!!!).

I fell for Rafe in An English Patient - which I know some people think it's a daft movie - but I was drawn in - I think because of my Venus/Pluto conjunction..... deep passionate consuming love with a bizarre and tragic twist.....

And then seeing him in Schindler's List left me flabbergasted!!! He's an amazing actor! I even tolerated The Constant Gardener, because he was in it!!!!

Rafe rules!!!!!

So, would you say the 3 main men who appear on this thread are Jude, Robert and Ralph?

I think I'm going to reflect on Jen and Cobie for a while - Fancy having two women to oogle over. Life just gets better

posted December 26, 2008 03:09 AM         

Are you insinuating that I would think that you had a soft spot other than in your heart for Rafe? Filth that is. Pure filth.

I'm disguisted....

.....at your accuracy. Damn! You know me too well. But then, thinking about it - this is Ralph Fiennes - I mean - who would have a soft spot anywhere else for him? (Flight attendants excluded).

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So, would you say the 3 main men who appear on this thread are Jude, Robert and Ralph?

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Lets set this straight - once and for all.
In order of significance:

1. Robert
2. Robert
3. Robert

and....

Robert. With honourable mention to Colin Farrell.

Is anyone else thinking of the multiple uses for that gold tie?

Anyone?

posted December 26, 2008 03:33 AM         

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posted December 26, 2008 03:46 AM         

and this is for me....

posted December 26, 2008 03:06 PM         

I love you. No, in fact, i beyond love you- i luff you. You and i should fly kites together.

Is that girl Cobie? I like Pink and Jen but i don't know that Cobie is touching me any place special.

posted December 26, 2008 03:07 PM         

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Lets set this straight - once and for all.
In order of significance:

1. Robert
2. Robert
3. Robert

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Dear, i know it's tricky but you spell it, R-A-L-P-H.

posted December 26, 2008 03:12 PM         

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The most charming men about tend not to be either young nor handsome. Or maybe this is just my warped perspective.

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posted December 26, 2008 03:20 PM         

Congratulations on being accepted into your class!! When does it start??

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Yeah - I get connecting vibes. Problem is that I get it way ahead of the other person and it's a waiting game for them to catch up. I really hate that. All that Aries hates to wait. You know?

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I saw something last night that I had to put up for you – Time magazine rated your RDJ one of the ten tost important People Who Mattered of 2008!!

posted December 26, 2008 04:51 PM           

BTW I guess I have to face the truth: I like the younger guys like Jude or Stuart. Some of my musical crushes are even one or 2 years younger than me. Oh the shame!
I guess it has to do with my DSC in Gemini.

Oh on another note I have seen "The Dark knight" yesterday, which felt VERY weird.
However I wanted to say that personally I think that Gary Oldman did a wonderful job with the role he had been given. And he should be given more credit for his acting skills.

posted December 27, 2008 07:47 PM         

It's not a crime for liking men younger than you. Don't beat yourself up about it. I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable, but you shouldn't. Age is a number.

posted December 28, 2008 06:21 AM           

I`m not beating myself up over it. I think an age difference of 1 - 3 years isn`t all THAT bad. Actually, yes, personally I think, age is just a number, but to most people it seems to be strangely important.
I do see some difficulties though, if the age difference becomes TOO big.
But even then it depends on the people involved.

posted December 28, 2008 03:09 PM         

I agree- i think that it truly depends on the maturity and temperments of the two people involved (and i'm not just saying that 'cause i'm a "grandad-shagger"!)

Age is a number in the sense that it's pretty irrelevant when falling in love. However, it becomes more of an obstacle when the relationship picks itself up. If you're a conservative 40-something woman who's having a fling with the 21 year old high school drop-out stoner next door... well.. that's going to be more difficult than if you're the conservative 40-something woman who's with the straight-laced 21 year old law student, ya know?

And 1 to 3 years is NOTHING. Trust me! It's nothing to feel awkward about. You can't help it- it's written in the stars!

I've been using a lot of hyphens lately and it's really starting to bother me...

Oh, and before i forget: I Gary

posted December 30, 2008 01:36 AM         

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Why thank you meta - you cutie-cutie pie!!!

Christmas knocked the stuffing out of me!!! It was great to have family around

OKay, now let's play a game. When I say something write down the first thing that comes to mind.

Are you ready?

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posted December 30, 2008 02:37 AM         

Now, to wait for other answers

Of course, this is all tied up into something else, you know

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posted December 30, 2008 04:26 AM         

......yellow underwear!

posted December 30, 2008 05:16 AM         

Scorpio Rising. Black, black, black.

I need to get some new bras. I need someone to help me shop. I don't know if it is going to work online ~ and the indecency police will get angry if I post a picture of my boobies to help out. It won't be for purposes of lust, I can assure the general public. Not my old udders.

posted December 30, 2008 05:28 AM         

1. You like black. Stick with black.

2. Bend forward and allow the breast to naturally tumble into the cup like wine into a glass.

3. Ask the assistant for help. They have no shame in pushing boobs into cups.

4. I don't think there is a bra for udders. This is where asking the assistant may come in handy, once again. Otherwise, modifying milking suction caps may be an option.

5. Posting your boobs online in the right place will get you terrific results, even if they don't get you the right bra.

posted December 30, 2008 05:56 AM         

I don't pass the pencil test.

But I always have a handy place for storing pens.

Option number 5, well I do believe you may be right. Not everyone likes the same thing, and as my tastes tend to run to the older gentleman, they will just have to be grateful they get something this young and firm. Ish. The current mr bm is a case in point, though only ten years my senior, that is enough for him to be very quiet on matters of pertness.