posted February 03, 2009 01:37 PM         

Tell me more!

The postman isn't gay. He looks embarrassed when I answer the door in my pjyamas looking like I have had a fight with a wild skunk. It's a sure sign. Gay men do a kind of aesthetic appraisal. It's hard to put in words, but I know it.

posted February 03, 2009 01:42 PM           

AG,

I guess I`m on the other end of the spectre, as I have only masculine signs as Sun, Moon and ASC (Sag and Aqua). Actually my only personal feminine planet is Venus, and that one is in Capricorn, not the epitome of femininity either, I fear.
But that`s just how it is. But in considering this it makes even sense, that I tend to like "feminine" guys, who often happen to be gay, as they usually (not always of course) have a dominance of feminine planets.

In the case of that first musical crush there was actually an interesting balance.

I have 4 personals in Yang (Sun, Moon, Mars, ASC)
He has 4 personals in Yin (Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC)

In Jude`s case it`s:
Sun and Mars in Yin
Moon, Venus and ASC in Yang

but I guess the reason he comes across as feminine is that both of his "male" planets are in so-called feminine signs.
That plus Libra on MC, Libra-Moon in 10th house (conjunct Uranus) and Venus conjunct Neptune on the ASC.

posted February 03, 2009 01:47 PM         

I can cook, though.

I can also dress despite color blindness.
I don't have many terrible hair days.
I appreciate beauty.
I'm not aggressive with women.
I'm somewhat aloof, quiet.
You may be suddenly surprised by a bit of wit out of me.
I can be moody, and not talk for your own sake (us Moon conjunct Pluto people are like that; plus my Mars is in Scorpio).

posted February 03, 2009 01:48 PM         

Maybe it is a Capricorn thing. A feeling of being unreachable. You said it might be a Cancer/Capricorn axis thing? That would make sense, because my Venus in Cancer WANTS to reach out. And when i feel like someone is distant it gets my gears turning and i HAVVVEEEEE to know why.

No, our synastry isn't that strong. A few good placements, but basically nothing. So that's what is making me think of him like this? It's because i can't get to him... that explains why i couldn't explain my reasoning for feeling this way!

But i don't feel that way for Ralph... is that becasue he have different synastry...?

AG,

What's your chart like? Post it?

BM,

posted February 03, 2009 01:53 PM         

Are they?

Maybe the Virgo contingent have views on this theory.

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I can be moody, and not talk for your own sake (us Moon conjunct Pluto people are like that; plus my Mars is in Scorpio).

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Guilty of this, mainly noticeable if you have to live with me. It makes a contrast with the rest of the time where I am capable of talking rather a lot.

Scorpio/Pluto and Gemini, mixed bag indeed.

posted February 03, 2009 01:57 PM         

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But that`s just how it is. But in considering this it makes even sense, that I tend to like "feminine" guys, who often happen to be gay, as they usually (not always of course) have a dominance of feminine planets.

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Longest relationship to date was with a Sag with Gemini Moon (exactly squaring my Virgo Moon), and Capricorn Rising. I definitely think there's something to masculine/feminine nature of the signs in relation to who you're attracted to and get along with.

posted February 03, 2009 02:00 PM         

What kind of women are you attracted to? Physically? Emotionally? Etc.

What kind of relationships are you attracted to? I see a lot of restriction in your chart- is it hard for you to get comfortable with people? Especially those you're interested in?

posted February 03, 2009 02:07 PM           

Our planets fall in complimentary houses:
HIs Sun in my 4th - my Sun in his 10th
his Moon in my 6th - my Moon in his 12th
his Mercury in my 4th - my Mercury in his 10th
his Venus in my 5th - my Venus in his 11th
his Mars in my 3rd - his Mars in my 9th
his ASC in my 3rd - my ASC in his 9th

And in the Draco:

My Draco Sun conjuncts his tropical Sun in Aries
my Draco Mercury and his tropical Mercury in ARies
my Draco Venus widely conjuncts his tropical Venus
my Draco Mars conjuncts his tropical ASC
my Draco ASC and his tropical ASC in Pisces

Astrologically it almost looks as if we are two sides of a coin, or maybe better said he is the mirror of my Draco planets (whatever Draco means in this case).

Just thought that was hilarious.

And it`s even funny reading his interviews, cause they even at times seem to reflect what is going on in MY life, too, even though of course not music-related.
Example:
I had finished and started working as a teacher at a school - he started teaching in a music-school
Or another example we both fell sick at the same time, which was annoying cause I dragged myself, sick as I was, to a concert to realize he wasn`t there, because he was sick. And it wasn`t even a time for influenza!

posted February 03, 2009 02:17 PM           

I definitely agree on the complimentary aspect of Yin-Yang.

AS I said I assume that is the true reason for my "draw" to Jude.

When I saw your chart I couldn`t help but notice how exactly your Venus sits on my NN, which is on 10°10 Sagittarius. And my Saturn sits pretty exactly on your SN with 00°02. Mmhph, I am sorry about that. lol

BM,

I hate cleaning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am true to my sun-sign; my mom often sais I am worse than any man could ever be in that regard. But hey, she has Sun in Scorpio, ASC in Cancer and Moon, Venus AND Mars in Virgo.
You can imagine, our fights concerning cleaning or order have the measure of world wars.

Meta,

posted February 03, 2009 02:31 PM         

We won't talk about much, just be quietly in tune. Double whammy Moon CNJ Pluto.

I have this same aspect with a close friend. Who is gay. He wasn't out when we met as teenagers. It's not something we ever really discussed it, I just worked it out. I thought if he ever wanted to talk about it he would, be it's never been necessary. I know what he feels about it, etc, no need to spell it out.

posted February 03, 2009 02:40 PM         

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What kind of women are you attracted to? Physically? Emotionally? Etc.

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Ask my ex's. Some of them seem to have ideas of what I'm attracted to, which they wanted to think excluded them. I only say this to illustrate the point that it's mildly annoying to have someone suggest that you're not into them even while you're happily with them. To put this annoyance back on myself, though, I should probably be more vocal of my approval of who I'm with, and stop believing that my continued interest in them is evidence enough that I enjoy being with them.

In all honesty, I am more attracted to a sporty body than not. Venus in Sagittarius.

Emotionally, I started out dating mostly Cancers, and ultimately I'm not sure that I enjoy their emotional natures. They're pretty easily offended despite your intention. With masculine signs there seems to be less chance of that, so I like that. What I alluded to above might be a problem, though. With a masculine person I might be a little too buddy-buddy, and not express enough emotion myself, though I do express myself physically, like through cuddling and laying together often. Ultimately Mercury is my chart ruler, so I want a mental connection if possible.

posted February 03, 2009 03:02 PM         

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When I saw your chart I couldn`t help but notice how exactly your Venus sits on my NN, which is on 10°10 Sagittarius.

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So I should send my art to you to help you along your way?

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And my Saturn sits pretty exactly on your SN with 00°02.

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So you discipline what I'm comfortable with?

I don't really get Nodes in synastry.

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Our Moons are 42 seconds apart.

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We won't talk about much, just be quietly in tune.

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posted February 03, 2009 04:02 PM           

Hmm, the nodes, well, it depends if you believe in past lives or not, I guess.
If you do, it`s pretty easy, the SN signifies where you come from (past life).
But of course it can also be interpreted without believing in reincarnation.
The SN is something that you feel comfortable with, something of your past (in this life), while the NN signify what you will develop, the direction of your path.
Saturn on SN - mmeh maybe I would be critical of your past? Any embarassing secrets you are hiding?
WEll, it`s said to be pretty karmic in the UGH sense.
But then again I will not be the only one with Saturn on 17° CAncer.

posted February 03, 2009 04:06 PM         

We've all given up work, and relationships and exercise routines to post.

posted February 03, 2009 04:08 PM           

you know what I found interesting?
That even the gay magazines apparently don`t doubt he is heterosexual.
You ask how I do know this?
Well, after Meta made that comment I of course started a search. lol

posted February 03, 2009 05:18 PM         

The latest of over 2000 comments on TMZ

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Chrisian is definitely on drugs. NO ONE goes off like that unless they're using. I, too, will never watch him again. What an embarassment he is, totally pathetic! He reeks!

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Hilarious.

No one goes off like that unless they're using? Yeah, O.K. If you say so.

posted February 03, 2009 05:25 PM         

Your Vertex is exactly on my Venus/chiron.

AG,

Interesting, very interesting *strokes imaginary beard***

So you like those that challenge you, versus those who are similar to you. You said that the masculine placements attract you and balance your feminine placements, right? So you want someone who can push you-a very Mercurial thing, might i add.

posted February 03, 2009 05:39 PM         

Jude & I:

posted February 03, 2009 05:46 PM         

I was just picturing your synastry with Ralph, and you have some really intriguing placements actually. A really compelling synastry. You don't like him at all? He's a wet blanket? I'm trying to picture what placement would do that in a synastry... Saturn would be involved is my guess.

Your Saturn is on his Venus/Mercury.