posted February 03, 2009 05:48 PM         

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AG...
If my Capricorn ex#1 had been more like you I probably would not have left him.

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Thanks. I'd like to try out a relationship with a Scorp Sun someday.

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So you like those that challenge you, versus those who are similar to you.

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Couldn't they still be similar to me? I've got a good balance in my chart.

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I find it interesting how you said that you're looking for a Mental connection since your chart is ruled by Mercury. I would have thought you were looking for a deep emotional connection, given your heavy placements. Someone you can open up to.

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posted February 03, 2009 05:58 PM         

Some things don't need spelling out. They don't need probing or drawing out, either. They can be worked out and just let be.

posted February 03, 2009 06:19 PM         

Many people are like this, and in being so will work things out just as quickly as all this sucking out of emotions the odd Lindalander here and there seems to be so terribly proud of (refering in particular to ancient post as described in my irritation list) for some quirky reason. Ultimately, I do think, there is something lacking in perception and ability to empathise in not being able to work out when someone wants to be left alone. But, of course, in saying this I am deeply tainted both by Moon/Pluto vibes and having read some fairly fanciful offerings on good old LL in the past.

posted February 03, 2009 06:37 PM         

...and it's not like I weep. Movie makers just have my number. They seem to know what will set me off. It's either that, or somehow I feel safe enough to be emotional in the presense of movies.

posted February 03, 2009 07:54 PM         

I understand what you mean. Some things don't NEED to be talked about. You just understand the unspoken.

I suppose i just like to talk about things. Whether i already know before hand the circumstances or not. I like to listen, to ask.

Crying doesn't bother me. It depends though. If it's someone who i know, who is hurting, crying hurts me. You feel absolutely helpless. I hate that feeling. Crying that doesn't stem from true, true hurt- like movie crying- doesn't bother me either. I don't cry often, but when i do it's a sobbbbb.

posted February 04, 2009 04:30 AM         

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Jeez, didn`t you hear my heart breaking all the way down to Australia?

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DD - Talk about crying! I was last night when I read about the Psyche/Aphrodite myth.

I have these conjunct in synastry as a Double Whammy!! I thought it would be amazing, beautiful, enthralling, etc, but it's only about jealousy, power and nastiness!!!!

posted February 04, 2009 04:46 AM         

***One looks at the other as a threat, while the target is innocent, yet accepting of their fate.

***One scorns the other and sets out to destroy, while the target willingly takes on the challenges.

***One wants to remove the threat, while the other is dutiful not to fall in love with the son (a third entity? Who could the third entity be?)

***One is hateful, the other is innocent but fights to stop falling in love with a third entity.

***The scorner unintentionally pushes the innocent one to love the third entity, which is the true love.

***The more you push, the more it pulls effect.

***An emotional nemesis.