posted February 07, 2009 11:13 PM         

I just saw this and instantly thought of you and Ralph. I wonder why?

posted February 07, 2009 11:18 PM         

Now... what's this i hear about a broom closet...??!?!?!?!?!!

posted February 07, 2009 11:19 PM         

Have the press got hold of the story already.

Damn it. I told him not to tell.

"but nothing happened".

posted February 07, 2009 11:31 PM         

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no use trying to cover up the spilt milk the Persian rug. It'll mold. Eventually.

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posted February 07, 2009 11:35 PM         

I see what you're saying re: the Pisces Moon eyes. Well, damn it, they're not blue! There's a point there.

posted February 08, 2009 12:17 AM         

Oh, you and i, and our love for the naughty ones. Damn Mars in Taurus...

He is very mischievous in that picture, isn't he? Little Ralph-ey. In some ways he reminds me of the little boy who tugs at his sister's pig tails, but when you go to reprimand him, you just... can't. He owns you.

And in some ways... he reminds me of the Almighty Healthcliff. Ruler of Meta-land. I'm so dumb...

posted February 08, 2009 01:29 AM         

Maybe i like Ralph because i need the harshness. The complications. He's tangled, and so am i. It might be a natal chart thing.

You have similarities with RDJ and you feel very attached to him. He's your guy. You stick up for him, and for Col, because you understand them. In a way. I do the same for Ralph because i feel i understand him in that SAME way. Do you get what i mean?

posted February 08, 2009 01:33 AM         

How did you know I was dancing around the house this morning listening to music?

These are the songs that got me going:

**"I Don't Know How to Love Him" - Helen Reddy

**"Smoke and Ashes" - Tracey Chapman

**"The Weakness in Me" - Joan Armatrading

posted February 08, 2009 01:37 AM         

I can see what you're saying. But with Rafe it's always a sense that it's not like peeling off the layers - it's either him unfolding them for you in his own time or you having to strip them off. Too much game playing for me. I like people who are upfront - what you see is what you get - because I'm like that. I may not reveal all my cards at once, but I promise that it's not going to be an excruciating experience. Which, with Rafe, I think it is.

But, that said - I already feel like I know Rafe - I'd be ahead of him every step of the game. It would be like this predictable game of chess. Which has an element of boredom to it for me. With Colin - I think there's an element of running to catch up every now and then. The conversations alone would be 200 zillion miles an hour. Brilliant.

posted February 08, 2009 01:39 AM         

We'll discuss your musicals tastes...... later. Says she, who has Abba and The Sound Of Music soundtrack on her iPod.

posted February 08, 2009 01:39 AM         

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Like, is there something that you squeeze and something comes out of it?

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I've been contemplating your question all afternoon, using Zen-like deep meditation techniques and the only answer I keep coming up with is "Thank goodness, NO!!"

posted February 08, 2009 01:43 AM         

No just kidding

posted February 08, 2009 01:57 AM         

I always get this sense that in the ideal/fantasy you meet Rafe and you can see into his soul and somehow you get the opportunity to unpeel all those layers - maybe even strip them off - and he's grateful in some way to you because he's been waiting for the right/perfect person to be coming along and do that for him. I just think/feel that can be quite violating to a soul that's not ready to be revealed. People have walls for reasons. They keep people safe as equally as they imprison them.