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Topic: When men and women argue
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amowls
Knowflake Posts: 1383
From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted March 30, 2009 11:48 PM
 
As someone who's Mercury is in Aquarius, I'm more prone to arguing from a logical point of view, regardless of whether I have a vag or not.IP: Logged |
Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 330
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2008
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posted March 30, 2009 11:52 PM
Hsc, I saw where you said the hour sign is your children
My hour is: Metal sheep/goat
Der-dah-der-dah (drum roll please)
MY FIRST BORN IS ....A METAL SHEEP/GOAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 10716
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 30, 2009 11:56 PM
hi amowls 
whoa, cool, chryseis. 
i love when it works out like that!
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Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 330
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 12:16 AM
actually sorry, the sheep part is right but am not sure about the element because I was flitting from site to site and I think I'm a ewe twice and one of them at least was metal, well actually I'm not sure about that either but yeah I'm defitely an hour sheep. So yeah that part is really really correct yepIP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 10716
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 31, 2009 12:20 AM
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Knowflake Posts: 4722
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted March 31, 2009 03:15 AM
I don't tend to argue with guys, I can't really say that I have had one except about rubbish disposal with Mr 23 a few years back. But I'd say I'm with amowls on this one. Being an Aqu Merc, I argue in a dispassionate and logical manner. Anyway, my chart is so masculine that it's females that sometimes are the great mystery to me.Anyway, interesting to see that my birth hour is Horse, coincides with my Jupiter on my ASC. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted March 31, 2009 08:36 AM
Hi everyone! Thanks for reading. What Chinese food are you having and what does your fortune say? I am always having Garlic Chicken and I go get some every time I am sick with any infection. Garlic is good for that. I know we are not supposed to eat meat but we all know the meat is really neighborhood cats and those are free range. My fortune says... Your Fortune:
You have more work than you can handle. Go take a rest; you deserve it. http://predictions.astrology.com/fc/
Ahhh, how wise the cookies are...
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wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 2129
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 08:51 AM
First it said "Life is more important than bladder problems"Then I realised that was an ad! Then it said:
"You crave your lover when the two of you are apart". No sh!t. I was walking the house at 2am making noises like Chewbacca, and this is the first night apart in about a week. Perhaps the next one will say:
"Get a life"
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MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 5234
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posted March 31, 2009 08:59 AM
lol Goooood morning, Wheels. What time of day is it for you? I wasn't paying attention during the time zone lessons of life.IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 2129
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 09:04 AM
Hi Mel! It's 14.03 and counting. I have the mid-afternoon baked-potato-induced slump. *sigh* How you doing? IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted March 31, 2009 09:12 AM
I think I got over the bronchitis for exactly half a day and now I have some sore throat thing. And a list of other problems that I won't bore you with. But hey, the half cup of microwaved coffee was good... with a little creamer (I use soy milk but also use creamer and now have to feel guilty about the baby cows, thanks A LOT!) and the pot of tea is boiling as we speak... a little goji berry and something... and it isn't freezing in here and my head only hurts a smidge so overall, it is a good day so far.
My toes are cold though.
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MysticMelody
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posted March 31, 2009 09:13 AM
Oh, and how are YOU? (Other than the starch thing.)IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 2129
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 09:19 AM
Moo!
Don't sweat it kid, I also had a cake for lunch. Ommm... Bronchitis is awful, I've had it three times. Does it feel like your ribcage is going to splinter through your chest? Any interesting green coloured stuff yet? Get a hotwater bottle down your jumper. Or a willing child. Me? I'm peachy. Really peachy. I can't remember when I was this happy. Probably 1993.  IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 5234
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posted March 31, 2009 09:40 AM
The green has been here and gone, but I did spit flem (how do you spell phlegm? ohhh flegggummm, ok) for a few days. That is done now. Just a little drip, and the sore throat but mini-me has been sneezing for days so I know there is another something brewing. Eating the echinacea and zinc. I will survive. Thank you so much for allowing me to complain. You are a sweetheart.
Is the happiness due to the Pisces? (Why does it have to be due to a MAN, Melody?? ) Or the cake? Or..? Are you having any interesting developments in your housing situation? I read that Pluto will affect Libra in that area so I have been wondering how it will go down for me.
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wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 2129
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 09:54 AM
Complain away mate, it sounds like you've had it rough.  I hear school's been tough? Well, a mix of things but mainly the man. Just very very tight these days you know? And he's started talking. I think we've been so consumed with my problems (anger mostly - at everything) that his concerns haven't had any daylight. *cringe* It's not so much that he can't talk, he just hasn't had the opportunity. We've been cycling and walking and doing DIY at his place and all the while he's been talking. Night before last he said "I'm happier than a pig in sh!t" and we've been curled up together at nights like a couple of snakes and wake up the same way we went to sleep. Just close, you know? Stuff like that. And also I've kind of been preparing for Saturn coming into my 2nd Mel. I'm ready for tr Saturn to conjunct natal Pluto. I've had some horrific Saturn and tr Pluto stuff going on lately and I'm trying to be ready. They say Saturn can't chop off loose ends if you've tied them up and so I'm getting my money and resources situation sorted out. Moving in with my sister and niece will get me reconnected to the world a bit more and save me £350 a month to boot. Enough to have an actual life. And to save to go somewhere for a long time with Pisces. Somewhere hot. Maybe India. But then also I'd really like to get married. I'd really like to have a baby with him. I don't know, early days. What do you reckon will go on with Pluto and you? You have a very strong Pluto in your chart. I sent you an email the other day to you Yahoo. Did you get it? Just a hello and a thinking about you sorta email, I don't know if you ever check it.
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MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 5234
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 31, 2009 10:10 AM
Oh, no, I don't check that one too much which is why I say "don't write me" as a mod. hehe I will though and send you one I check. I just use that one to sign up for places and didn't know I'd ever be a mod... and I don't want the World Wide Web to have my regular email anyway... but YOU can have it.
The love sounds so gooooood. Snake curling is THE BEST. I am not often that relaxed but my my is it good when I am...
Men/boys often talk when engaged in activities. The relationship books say that because women over the centuries needed to look face to face at babies to communicate with them and teach them to communicate, they talk and nurture face to face. Men, because they had to be hunting and sitting side by side with bow and arrow or spear pointing away from each other, or walking miles to find game for centuries, are more comfortable talking side by side not looking at each other. My books on how to talk to your teenage boys etc say the same. That's why men "go fishing", or at least, they used to. :^)So, you do have a different living arrangement in the works. Hmmm. A gf just came a few weeks ago and helped me paint my bathroom (she re-paints her rooms all the time and had lots of extra paint to choose from) and I had been holding off on doing anything because I keep thinking something is going to happen to cause me to move but nothing so far and now a spa green bathroom and I have been putting up the stuff I have collected for the day I finally painted it.
So...?
Saturn could have a field day with my loose ends.
You keep up the good work. :^) And wish me a little burrow love.
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Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 5123
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted March 31, 2009 10:18 AM
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Women should NEVER argue with men. They will always lose because women are sweet and feminine and a man's world is in the WORLD and arguing is part of their domain
Huge misgeneralization, since we're all a degree of masculine and feminine. I'm almost half and half (its really 60-40 but whatevs) and all I care about during an argument is proving my point and sticking to it in the most credible/logical way possible.
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 5869
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted March 31, 2009 10:25 AM
Really Dulce? I'm not into feminism
I can't agree that women have enough male energy to ever compete with men in a man's world. Men are wired to win, women are wired to compromise. IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 2129
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 10:30 AM
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Men/boys often talk when engaged in activities. The relationship books say that because women over the centuries needed to look face to face at babies to communicate with them and teach them to communicate, they talk and nurture face to face. Men, because they had to be hunting and sitting side by side with bow and arrow or spear pointing away from each other, or walking miles to find game for centuries, are more comfortable talking side by side not looking at each other. My books on how to talk to your teenage boys etc say the same. That's why men "go fishing", or at least, they used to. :^)
That makes an awful lot of sense. Hey, I'm glad you've sorted out your bathroom. You're always advising people to get new bath mats to cheer themselves up (I did! It worked, I got one a lovely shade of jade green and new towels to match, plus some jade bottles - use undetermined! Just purty). Burrow love a-plenty from here dollface.  I've seen massive amounts of feminine compromising from my Piscean Lara, plus an awful lot of bullying/dominance tactics from this Libran. I think it depends on the chart (oh that old chestnut, it depends on the chart ). True though, for me anyways. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 5123
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted March 31, 2009 10:48 AM
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I'm not into feminism
I can't agree that women have enough male energy to ever compete with men in a man's world. Men are wired to win, women are wired to compromise.
I'm not into feminism as it is now but I don't agree that we're either ALL male or ALL female but I'm a gemini venus and 7th house sun so maybe that influences my androgynous views. *shrugs*
I definitely don't agree with that last statement either. I'm an aries mars so and with a very hardwired competitive nature which serves me well during an argument, debate, soccer game, whatever...LOL. I mean of course there are fields that are CLEARLY better suited for men than woman, but the idea that a woman can't compete in so-called 'man's world' is something I can never agree with looking at the number of success stories. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 5234
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 31, 2009 11:54 AM
lol @ bathmats being the solution to life's problems ♫she thinks happiness is the mat she keeps
on the dooooooorway....♫ Shhhhh! Don't bring that up on THIS thread! hehehe I totally thought Lara was being sarcastic and giving me the business on that one. Had no idea she was serious. I am so used to defending my position when I mention things like that that I assumed she was having a joke at my expense. hehe Thus the orating on my position that followed... lol sry Lara
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Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 330
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2008
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posted March 31, 2009 06:17 PM
Lara,
Am I getting this right, you did say you're female didn't you?! Ok well just checking....  IP: Logged |
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