posted September 22, 2003 03:43 AM           

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Yes, I definitlet think hes interested!! That is so sweet that he played you that song When will you see him next??

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posted September 22, 2003 09:30 AM         

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yeah....I really think it was a good sign. Then again, he seemed to pull back a bit this last visit, but as my wise Scorpio momma said, people, after they come in close romantically, tend to pull back, then some closer the next time. Have you found that true as well, RRR?
I hope to see him again in late December... I sent him a brief letter before retrograde, but am unsure if he'll write back soon.
This poem below was written to express my recent perplexions...: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/000179.html

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted September 22, 2003 11:17 PM           

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The poem is beautiful

Seeing he hadn't seen you for awhile he might have been unsure if your feelings have changed or not? Some men are funny like that. They need constant reassurance of your affections. Also, if he doesn't reply to your letter it may just be that he can't expres himself in that way. I was seeing my current boyfriend long distance for a year, while he was still in the army. The longest we went without seeing each other was 5 months!! I wrote at least once a week and he wrote me once!!!! It was a note of about 5 lines but it just wasn't his style!

I also had to make the first move with him. We used to joke and muck around etc and I told a friend I liked him and he passed that info on. Luc told the same friend he felt the same so I waited for him to make a move. I waited nearly two weeks!!!! In the end I just said, 'Do you want to go out?' and he said 'yep'. All that time and I could have just asked him to begin with, I was just too nervous.

Men are so hard to read and you can't put them into any kind of category because they are all so different. They change too. (as do we).

I guess all you can do is enjoy the moments and hope that fate will lend you a little helping hand or give you a nudge in the right direction. As far as making sense of their actions and reactions...I'm still in the dark!!!

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posted October 03, 2003 01:27 PM         

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Guess what??? Yipee!!!
Tony wrote me a letter and it arrived yesterday
He mentioned twice about hopefully seeing me soon, and signed the letter:
********* *******
Much love to y'all
******** ********
I was so thrilled. It seems, at least from this, that perhaps we are both growing up, in good ways. The most recent letter I'd sent to him was purposefully sent before Merc. Rx since the communication issues affect us both strongly (Gemini and Virgo), and I wasn't expecting a response so soon. A good omen, right? He makes me smile from deep in my soul, like no one else can, keeps me in a playfully bright mood just thinking about him, and brings a warmth out in both of us when we're together that is special.

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted October 03, 2003 01:37 PM         

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Kat, I can just feel your bursting heart . I am so happy for you!!!!

Yay hurry back Tony

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posted October 04, 2003 12:14 PM         

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posted October 04, 2003 09:33 PM         

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And then...since I got a cell phone for my b-day, I used my 5000 weekend minutes to call my "soul sister" friend, whose bro is Tony, and after talking with her for a few minutes, Tony bugged her enough that she put him on the line, and after we'd chatted for a while, he mentioned again how he hoped to see me soon and right before he gave the phone back to his sis, he said "Miss you", and I said it back.....oh...
I hope this sudden change of tone in our relationship is permanent. It seems to be such a growing warmth, that just appeared out of nowhere. Well, not exactly nowhere, but progressing more like it did back in last December and April. And not a direct result of anything I did that different last time I saw him, other than the fact that I heard from an unreliable source (one of the new 12 year-old girls in the family) that he didn't like having us visit and wished we would go home(which I think now was his way of expressing hurt, since I, after getting the impression that he was ignoring me, ignored him). My reaction to that was deep soul-piercing hurt, which culminated in me curling up in a closet, crying. After the misinformation was straightened out with help from one of his other sisters, and he appologized, he treated me a bit like I was made of glass, became extremely sensitive to my easily-hurt nature. Also, he gave me a hug before we left. Beyond that, nothing different than usual.
And yet, all this time since we came home from that visit, I've felt a progressively more intense romantic feeling for him (and comparing our biorhythms has always indicated we are on the exact same vibe).
So...we'll just see where this takes us and I feel the pleasant rays of optimism and love shining down.

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted October 05, 2003 06:53 PM         

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